Do you know that you have been told about the importance of oral sex? Some people say don’t worry about it, as long as you give your man sex he will be fine. The sad case is that most men are not okay without oral sex and end up leaving women who don’t give it. Don’t hate me for being honest with you, it turns out to be the truth. Men love oral sex, in fact they crave it. If they don’t get it from home, they will most likely find it elsewhere.
So let me ask you this. Why don’t you give your man oral sex? Are you afraid of nausea? Are you afraid that he will ejaculate in your mouth? Or is it that you just don’t think you would do very well? Well, I have good news. Each of these scenarios can be fixed.
One of the best ways to handle insecurities about a penis is to use your hands. Now this may seem like common sense, but many women forget that there is more to a blow job than their mouth. The best thing about using your hands is that you control her penis, not him. So you are in control of how deep and how hard it goes in. There is nothing wrong with guiding him, especially if you are a bit scared at first. Also, this should take away his fear of ejaculating in your mouth. If you can feel when you are about to ejaculate, you can slide your penis out of your mouth and finish it off with your hand. Usually a good way to end this is to let him ejaculate on your breasts. it will make him feel so good to see you cover yourself with him.
Once you feel like you are in control of your penis, you can move on to more advanced lessons. Since this is a short read, we’ll keep it simple here. Try just guiding his penis with one hand so you can explore his body with the other. One of my favorite oral sex techniques is to grab her ass with one hand and then slowly give her a handjob with the other hand. As you do this, slowly suck and lick the tip of his penis. I can assure you that he will go crazy for this move.
Another great oral sex technique is to wrap both hands around your penis so that one is on top of the other and slowly rotate from side to side. Be sure to use plenty of lotion, lube, or saliva for that technique. Of course, as you rotate slowly, be sure to suck on the tip of his penis.
The most important thing to remember is to just get over your fear and have fun! We all forget that sex is meant to be enjoyed and we are all so caught up in trying to please our lovers that we forget to have fun. So just dive in and experiment and do what feels right to you. As long as you are comfortable, your partner will love what you do. Just remember to step up your game and try new techniques and methods. You don’t have to be an expert, you just have to try. If you are trying new things with your man, he will appreciate it and respond favorably to it. So after finishing here, why not prepare for a night of discovery and passion? remember that his penis is not going to bite you… but you can bite him!