Do you feel like a sensual Empress of Love who knows how to captivate men and leave them hungry for more of your heavenly attention?
Isn’t there something in Angelina Jolie’s eyes and smile that just screams, “I feel you looking at me, and Baby, your attention warms my heart and soul and turns me on in deliciously sexy ways.”
Nope? Maybe it’s just me.
But I don’t think many would argue that Angelina is an empress of sensual love. She has a “certain fire” and a graceful, compassionate, soft and feminine, but also electrically dangerous way of being. All of those qualities combined make a recipe for love and lust in the hearts and snouts of men everywhere.
Although she is beautiful, there are many more beautiful women in my opinion. It’s about how she feels inside herself and how the energy that those feelings create, RADIATE from her. This makes her beauty very special.
Even if you didn’t know about her achievements and humanitarian acts, you would probably still be attracted to her and feel her Star Power. She is the most fascinating woman I have ever seen in celebrity circles.
Here are 5 ways YOU can feel like an empress of love and start casting a spell on men everywhere:
First way to enhance your feminine charm: indulge your senses
Part of having Feminine Allure is being a sensual woman. When you are sensitive and easily ENJOY the beauty found in touch, sound, taste, sight and smell, you attract men effortlessly.
Look, men are enchanted by sensual women. They make men feel comfortable, curious about something strange to them and very excited. (A man gets turned on when we are sensual because sex engages all your senses and your sensuality makes them think about sex.)
In today’s society, we are bombarded with pollution from our senses. There is so much energy from traffic, construction, and hustle and bustle around us that it lulls us to sleep. We lose touch with our bodies and feelings because we are overstimulated by the modern world.
Have you ever gone to the field and felt refreshed afterwards? Have you ever stopped eating salt for a while and suddenly you can taste things more keenly?
Start getting really good with your senses and find ways to enjoy poetry in life:
- Buy pretty, fragrant flowers at the local market to place by your bed.
- Go to expensive beauty stores and smell luxurious perfume oils. (Maybe even buy a bottle and dab a bit behind your ear at night.)
- Make a sandwich with warm, fresh bread and quality meats from a gourmet deli.
- Listen to baroque music on free internet radio while you send an email.
Treat your senses. It will make you slow down automatically and enjoy the moment. Your heart will smile and a smiling heart INVITES men to play and laugh with you.
Second way to enhance your feminine charm: pamper your body
I know it’s hard to eat right, exercise, and remember to moisturize after every shower, but try to do ONE beautiful thing for your body every day.
See, being good to your body changes the way you feel about your sex appeal. It also raises your level of happiness.
It makes you jump through the aisles of the market, instead of dragging your feet. She makes you touch your clean, silky hair in a sexy way instead of scratching your oily scalp when you’re anxious. She makes you open up to receive a man’s touches instead of cringing with the energy of “I don’t want to be touched”…
Ways to pamper your body:
- Take a dance class.
- Buy a watermelon and enjoy every healthy, juicy, sweet and refreshing bite.
- Slather on some baby oil after you shower and BEFORE you towel dry.
- Take a hot bubble bath with some delicious bath salts.
- Give yourself a spa pedicure or ask your man to give you a back rub with some oils.
- Make sure your bed sheets smell fresh and have a high thread count, and then sleep naked.
- Spend money on quality shampoos and conditioners.
Third way to enhance your feminine charm: breathe
When you start your day and end your night with a few minutes of deep, relaxed breathing, you are relieving tension in your body and allowing stress to escape. You are taking in the life force around you and connecting with it.
Breathing quiets your mind and opens your heart. This equates to fewer fears and insecurities and more loving energy for your life and relationships.
Remember to breathe during sex too. It relaxes your body and allows you to enjoy the touch of a man. It also invites a greater emotional connection.
The next time you’re with your man in bed, focus on your breathing. Tell yourself that with each inhalation you are INVITING it into your heart and with each exhalation you are EXPELLING the fears and anxiety that surround love and closeness.
You can be overwhelmed with emotion and it is very beautiful for a man when his vulnerable emotions are released during sex.
Fourth way to enhance your feminine charm: Feel that playful buzz of new love and lust
When a new love strikes like a bolt of lightning or we’re pining for a great lover and we can’t stop thinking about the way he touches us, we’re giving off pheromones. We feel great inside… and so do all the male scent glands within a ten-foot radius.
It’s not hard to recreate that feeling of new love or carnal desire for a few minutes of your day. You just have to know your triggers and know how to relax enough to let them work for you.
Triggers can be:
- Romance novels or fantasizing about old flames.
- Silky clothes that caress your skin in a way that gives you goosebumps and excites your nerve endings.
- daily masturbation
- Intense cardio exercise
- Great jazz or rock music (think what song you would strip to at a fantasy amateur striptease night.
Find a way to feel playful and flutter inside whenever you’re anxious, depressed, or even bored. It will really help prevent depression and it’s actually a healthy way to release anger… If you’re angry and then get turned on, that anger turns into safe, warm, fighting energy in your body. (Normally, it can turn into dark, brittle, self-deprecating, and violent thoughts in your mind that lead to great stiffness in your body.)
Fifth Way to Enhance Your Feminine Charm: Empower Yourself Through Journal Writing
Write down your strengths as a woman that men love.
Writing empowering mantras and self-descriptions makes them more concrete. It allows us to believe and remember them more than if we leave them as passing thoughts. Turn dream self-images into META self-images.
Write adjectives that describe your unique feminine charm. Are you seductive, witty, mysterious, daring and sulfuric?
Make the ‘If I were an exercise animal‘ and ask yourself, “If my feminine side were an animal, what would it be?”
Choose something sexy and dangerous like a black widow spider that gently lures unassuming men with its fragile elegance and nimble touch. Give it a name like Sardinia the Spider.
PRAYED
Choose something soft, sweet, cuddly and adorable like a fluffy white bunny that knows how to snuggle up and melt the hearts of men everywhere.
Don’t judge him as immature and silly, just allow yourself to have fun!
Open your imagination and let your mind feed your confidence and awaken your feminine power. Very often, our minds lead us to negative thoughts that kill our confidence in ourselves and in men. If you can allow your thoughts to be creative and silly, it will help you feel freer to be more playful, confident, and light with men.
It will also enhance your feisty and tumultuous side and make you write about fictional aliases. Some of mine are Debbie Dare-to-Love-Me McDaniels, the wild, free-spirited outlaw wearing red lipstick and ripped pantyhose or Brenda Breathless, a modern femme fatale whose cleavage pierces through male hearts like an AK47.
Get creative, don’t take yourself too seriously and let your imagination dictate where your pen goes on the page. Dare to HAVE FUN thinking and writing about how attractive you are to the opposite sex.