The allure of an open sexual relationship is very strong. Most couples are interested in the swinger lifestyle and share that interest by watching videos together or sharing intimate fantasies. Little by little, his interest grows. Eventually, some couples will decide to take the plunge: become swingers.
Wife swapping with friends should be carefully considered. It may seem like the best possible solution for you to live out your fantasy. It’s hard? Or is it a potential minefield? And, if so, is there a better solution?
The motivation for wife swapping with friends is usually “familiarity” and “accessibility”. You may not want to swing with complete strangers. You may feel more comfortable with people you know. You may also have long harbored fantasies about seeing your spouse having sexual fun with her friends. And, of course, friends are easily accessible – a phone call from mom or a car ride away.
But again, is it a good idea? I think you can guess by now that “no” is certainly not the best of ideas. I will explain why.
If the sharing experience goes wrong in some way (maybe someone gets jealous, maybe someone can’t do it), then you may lose friendships. Not only that, but it may not be possible to avoid these people (causing you to relive and relive the problem every time you see them).
Another problem is your emotional connection with friends. The negative feelings of jealousy that can sometimes arise in a swinger session will increase if you are emotionally connected to someone.
Lastly, friendships don’t always last forever. Think about it. What happens if you fight with your friends? What if they tell everyone you know that your wife is swapping with friends?
Almost everyone agrees when it comes to explaining these facts: never swing with someone you know. The solution obviously is to find single men or women or couples who are complete strangers. Get to know them first through the Internet and then jump in!