When learning to flirt with a girl, you will come across two different types of methods: the simple and the subtle. The above method means being completely direct with the girl you like by dropping pickup lines from left to right. The latter method, on the other hand, means being indirect and acting like you’re not interested in directly flirting with a girl right away. However, this does not mean that you should be too nice and fall directly into the friend zone. This article will focus on the subtle method and show you why it is so much more effective for flirting with girls in general.
However, before you can learn to subtly pick up a girl, you need to know why the simple method doesn’t work very well, in general. Look, hot, funny, and successful girls usually don’t like to be bombarded with cheesy pickup lines. While some girls fall in love, most will not. So if you don’t like approaching one girl after another, you may want to go for the more effective method – the subtle method.
So how do you subtly pick up a girl, exactly? Well, when approaching a girl you like, don’t be too direct, but don’t make it seem like you just want to be her friend either. Try asking something simple like “Hey, I’m _____. Are you here with your friends?” After she responds, be a little flirtatious and then go back to the “I don’t care much” zone.
In other words, after flirting a bit for a few minutes, back off again and then flirt again and back off again. This will make her feel like you might be interested in her, but she won’t be sure about that. This, in turn, will send her on an emotional roller coaster and make her confused and sexually tense at the same time.
Believe it or not, your chances of winning a girl with this method are much higher compared to if you try to pick up a girl with the simple method. In fact, the simple method is known to scare away most of the girls who hang out in bars and clubs. However, if you are subtle and flirt and withdraw from time to time, you can successfully avoid the friend zone and gain the interest of the girl you are talking to in no time.